Many people desire to play the role of victim. I think more often than not it is because they want to seem innocent of any wrongdoing, and if they are a victim then they can put others into the role of victimizers. It's almost childish. Like..."No, I'M the victim, YOU'RE the villian" they argue back and forth over the role of innocent victim. As adults we must learn to own our part in the demise of any relationship we are part of. Realistically, it is rare to find an innocent victim and a purly malevolent villian in any scenario, but we regularly assign those roles without question from the outside looking in. I don't mean that we should make excuses for someone who is cruel and hateful, but we rarely know the whole truth in most cases, and only God can see the heart and soul of a man, thus He is the only One qualified to make a judgement call on who's to blame for what.
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